What is the difference between egotism versus self-esteem? Some people who are egotistical will often justify their behavior as confidence/self-esteem. However, there is a fine line between the two.
A person who is egotistical will often brag and try to create positive views of themselves. They usually need validation from others to be confident about there own being. This behavior usually comes about through poor sportsmanship or putting others down. Individuals who are egotistical often have very low self-esteem. They try to make it up by acting egotistical.
On the other hand, a person with high self esteem believes in him/herself. They do not need someone else to confirm that they are talented or skilled. They will often exude confidence through both their knowledge base, manner of speaking, and body language. However, they will refrain from putting others down or going overboard on how they talk about their confidence.
In life, it’s very important to always have confidence and self-esteem. Whether in sports, a student, or job, being confident in your abilities and your decisions makes you a strong leader. People follow those with confidence. Have you ever wondered what all leaders have in common, confidence! Steve Jobs told his staff that he wanted a phone that did Internet, Music, and Phone. People thought he was crazy. He proved them wrong by showing confidence and leading his team to create the iPhone. Thomas Edison failed to create electricity 100s of times but finally succeeded. He had confidence and knew that he didn’t fail all those times but he merely was perfecting things.
As you go through life, remember that belief in yourself without flaunting and putting people down makes true leaders. Should you have any questions about being a champion or want to find out more details about soccer, feel free to contact me at president@murrietasurfsoccer.org.
Steve Haubrick is the MYSL/Murrieta Surf Soccer Club President. www.myslsoccer.org